There is no “safe” way anyway.

I need to make a decision. I have my pros and cons on paper in front of me but I can’t make up my mind. I know not doing anything is also a decision, but it’s not the one I want. It’s all risky. You are here to live a risky life. There is no “safe” way anyway.

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Lesson learned.

Learning what you don’t want to be like is also an important lesson. She bumped into my car but instead of saying “I’m sorry” she chose to say “believe me, I care about my car more than I care about yours”. I didn’t say anything. I was proud of myself, for that. But I do know, what I will never become.

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Smile.

That smile you have. That excitement you get when you “figure it out”, it’s yours to keep. No phone call, email, or the “usual” sentence can take it away from you. And if it does, it’s on you.

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Your real home is what you have inside your head.

You don’t need to feel a connection. You are paying for temporary walls. It’s not yours and it's not forever. You may call it your “home” for a while but your real home is what you have inside your head.

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Thank you.

I almost missed it. Missed an opportunity to say thank you. To tell you, you have been more than a teacher to me 20 years ago. But I did it. I stopped you in the middle of the street and said thank you. One word that made both of our days completely different. 

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You are stronger than this.

You are pulling yourself down. And the right direction is up. What's done is done. Don't let it break your spirit. Don't let it take your smile. Make a decision, and move on. You are stronger than this.

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Find a way.

Find a way. Find a way to make you heal. Find a way to stop focusing on what's distracting you so much. I don't have any guidelines for you, I just know you will find a way. And the sooner the better.

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